Tying the knot is a pretty universal concept. And, while the theme of spending your life together may transcend cultures, how we celebrate is widely varied. There are certain cultural wedding norms we are well aware of (something borrowed, something blue), but what about those surprising traditions that are not so well-known?
For example, did you know that in Germany the couple cuts a log during the ceremony? Or that in China brides are required to cry for an hour every day leading up to her wedding? We’ve rounded up five global wedding traditions that are truly fascinating, and the significance behind them. Ahead, read about them and who knows, maybe you’ll even end up adding some of these to your big day.
China: Crying For A Month
In parts of China, tears aren’t just reserved for the ceremony. The Tujia people in China perform a ritual that encourages the bride to cry every day for an hour, a month leading up to the wedding. The bride begins crying solo and then over the 30 days, her mother and grandmother join in. About 10 days before the wedding, the closest female friends and family surround the bride. It is said to be an expression of joy, as women cry in varied tones. Now that’s a sob story.
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India: Seven Steps Around Holy Fire
One of the most important steps (literally) in the three-day long Hindu wedding celebration is a ritual known as Saptapadi. This is when the couple says their vows, and takes seven steps around the holy fire. Their garments are tied together as they walk around the flame. Each step has a special meaning and concludes the ceremony. After the steps are taken the couple is officially married.
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Germany: Logging Cutting At The Ceremony
For many German couples, the first marital obstacle begins right at the ceremony. After vows are exchanged, the two newlyweds cut a log together, also known as Baumstamm Sägen. After leaving the church, the log is waiting outside for the couple, who use a two-handed saw to chop it in half (which is no easy feat, we’re sure). The ceremony is believed to symbolise overcoming strife throughout the marriage. Talk about teamwork!
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Norway: Dangling Bangles From Crown
In many cultures, the tradition of warding off evil spirits is common. For example, did you know bridesmaids dress the same to confuse ghosts from potentially getting to the bride? But, in Norway, they have their own way of keeping ghouls at bay. The decorative crown worn by the bride is bedecked with loud bangles. It is said that the noise will distract evil spirits and keep the bride at peace.
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Russia: Paying Ransom
In Russia there are quite a few interesting traditions that are performed. The one we love most is the bride’s ransom. The day of the wedding, the groom must go to the bride’s family’s house and pay a ransom (either monetary or with a special gift) to release the bride to get hitched. The act, which is referred to as vykup nevesty, is said to symbolise proof to the bride’s family that the groom can indeed support her financially. It’s a total comical event and meant to be lighthearted. The parents will apparently "release" the bride, but it’s a clown dressed up in a dress. On the second attempt, the real bride will come out.
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